Resources for learning foreign languages regularly appear on the network: texts for reading, audio and video with tasks for training listening comprehension. And most importantly, there are services that help you find interlocutors for conversational practice among native speakers of a foreign language!
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1 italki
I love this resource very much, because it is suitable for different purposes: language exchange, full-fledged lessons with a teacher, conversational practice with any native speaker, or just communication with like-minded people from all over the world.
When the plans are not only communication, but also a balanced training of all language aspects, you should try paid option site - classes with a professional teacher. You can schedule a lesson in advance or take it as soon as you enter the site. Through the search, you will find people who can contact you without prior arrangement.
2 LingvoHabit
LingvoHabit is a platform where you will move towards fluent communication in English with the help of daily interactive mini-lessons.
What you can do on the platform right now:
- select and save relevant materials;
- celebrate progress in learning and practice;
- undergo a variety of vocabulary training;
- keep a dictionary, checking the degree of memorization of phrases and words;
- train grammar and vocabulary in mini-lessons with exercises;
- improve listening comprehension of English through lessons on films and songs;
- pump the language in practice at marathons and courses.
3 Speaky
Cool site that I recently discovered for myself. I will review it soon after I test it.
Registration is simple and fast. When you get to your profile, you can start chatting with other members. On the right side of the screen, a list of potential online interlocutors appears, each of which is easy to write a message in the chat. If you add each other as friends, you can call by connecting the video.
4 Verbling
A site for those who are mostly interested in lessons with native speakers, and not just the practice of communicating on various topics.
The choice of a teacher is based on different parameters. For example, a native speaker of French who teaches Spanish. Or an Englishman who will teach you his native language. 🙂 In general, there are many options.
Connect to individual sessions in the morning, afternoon or evening. To get more speaking practice, meet new people and save on lesson costs, join a group class or invite your friends to learn a language together!
5 HelloTalk
The site provides communication through text chats and voice messages in more than 100 languages. There is a convenient mobile application.
The program helps even in pronunciation training: there is an option to listen to each message that is sent to you. The resource also helps to create your own database of materials for learning a language: sentences, pictures, words, audio.
With the help of special tools of the program, native speakers can easily correct you if necessary. You, too, can become such an assistant for someone.
6 Pen4Pals
More than 15,000 people around the world who are ready to practice learning foreign languages through a language exchange are waiting for you on this resource. The site has a simple search option for various parameters: gender, native language, language of study.
7 Couchsurfing
Community of travelers from different countries. Join meetings around the world, stay with new friends in another country, host them at home. Or just chat with a native speaker over a cup of coffee.
8 Polyglot Club
Do you learn languages not out of necessity, but because you absolutely love it? Check out this resource.
The site regularly organizes meetings for everyone who wants to practice communication in different languages. Choose the language of study and the city where you live. You will find out what meetings are taking place near you and you can organize your own. On the site, native speakers answer questions about learning it and offer a language exchange.
9 Interpals
This site is mostly intended for communication with foreigners by correspondence. Of course, when you find like-minded people, you will personally agree to communicate on Skype.
If you are not yet ready for conversational practice, this site will provide an opportunity to start communicating with native speakers in writing. This will help you learn how to formulate phrases in another language, gain confidence before a real conversation, find new acquaintances with whom you can really continue to communicate further.
10 Meet up
When you know a language at an advanced level, or even live abroad, you are looking for ways to improve your level of a foreign language. One option is to attend meetings and lectures on a variety of topics in the area where you are now.
11 Internationals
An additional site under the heading for advanced users of foreign languages. Through this resource, you can connect with people around the world and attend various events and meetings. It is especially great for immigrants - you can quickly acquire an interesting social circle and find new friends.
12 conversion exchange
Another resource for finding interlocutors for a language exchange. The choice of friends depends on the country of residence, the language of study and the native language, as well as the type of communication: in chat, by correspondence and in conversation. To fully use the search, you must register.
13 Penpaland
After registering on this language exchange site, you can not only find new pen pals, but also maintain your own microblog, as well as create photo albums. real social network, only with more useful!
14 Easy Language Exchange
On this resource you can easily find interlocutors for language exchange and correspondence. Additional option site - registration as a teacher. If it matters to you, go for it!
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15 LingQ
Among the features of the site are communication with other participants by correspondence and in conversation, lessons and courses with teachers, online sessions individually and in a group. You can ask to correct your writing or pronunciation. Please note that some of the options are paid.
16 Livemocha[closed]
This is a global community for learning 36 languages, where you can take training courses and create your own company of like-minded native speakers who will become your partners for language exchange, Skype conversations, and in the future good friends.
17 Paltalk
The service provides video chats with people around the world. You can join other members in the online chat room to discuss music, sports, language learning, various events and other topics. Additionally, there is an option to communicate via text messages.
18 Lang-8
Surely, while learning a language, you encountered a problem: you make up sentences and examples with new words, but there is no one to check you. This service solves the problem. Copy here the dialogue, text, phrases that you have composed, and get corrections from native speakers. Help the participants who are learning Russian by answering their questions if you feel you can give a hint.
19 The Mixer
Free educational site for finding language exchange partners with subsequent practice on Skype. Contacts can be viewed directly in the user's profile. Eat free lessons in English, Chinese, Spanish, French, German.
20 My Language Exchange
The site is dedicated to language exchange. It looks like this: you find a person who is interested in learning your native language, but at the same time is a native speaker of the language that you are learning. By choosing a form of communication (chat, email, conversation), you help each other in learning languages: mutual lessons, tips, vocabulary consultations or just talking on different topics.
The site has more than a million members from 133 countries who practice 115 languages in total! Unfortunately, you can write messages to other people only after a monetary contribution on the site. Free options: respond to requests and messages from other people, chat on the forum.
What service do I use?
All of these sites are useful in their own way. Try training on several and you will decide which site is right for you. As for me, I chose the site for language practice italki. Conveniently search for teachers and native speakers for lessons and language exchange, track completed lessons and feedback teacher. And another bonus: it is easy to find a teacher who can conduct a lesson or conversation practice via Skype without prior arrangement.
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Every day you will do exercises to practice every aspect of the language, including speaking, and learn how to apply languages in life step by step.
What other sites for practicing communication in a foreign language do you know? Share in the comments!
Search for interlocutors on italki
One of the most important opportunities that the Internet provides for learning foreign languages is the ability to communicate with foreigners. Speaking practice is especially important. To learn to speak a foreign language, it is not enough just to know the words, you need to practice communication. In this review, I will talk about sites and applications where you will find partners to practice a foreign language (not just English).
Note: this is a general overview of sites for language practice, I have already written about the sites mentioned earlier, so to summaries I add links to more detailed reviews.
1.
User profile on italki If your level allows you to communicate at least a little in English, be sure to try to take at least one such lesson - the effect of speaking classes is very noticeable.
2. HelloLingo
The fastest and easiest way to find a companion is on Hellolingo Attention: unfortunately HelloLingo is scheduled to close on May 18, 2019. I'll leave this mini-review here in case the service recovers.
In 2015, much to the dismay of users, the popular language site sharedtalk.com closed, where it was easy to find someone to chat with in a foreign language. Fortunately, the project has recently been reborn, becoming even better, now it is called HelloLingo.
This site is convenient for quick communication: I went in for a while, chatted with a random interlocutor, and left. Here you can find foreigners for longer communication. You can communicate in text and voice chat, and if you want to go to voice communication, first you need to write off in text mode - you can’t call right away.
The site has an interesting feature - you can’t put a profile photo here. The developers did this to avoid turning the language practice site into a dating site. The problem with many language communities is that there are many who want to flirt with beautiful foreign women. This is not welcome on Hellolingo!
3.Speaky
Speaky has a more social design than HelloLingo Language social network Speaky(previously called Gospeaky) is great if you find HelloLingo's design and social features too simplistic. Here you can put a photo on the profile, in addition, there is a convenient filtering function for native speakers and non-native speakers. In addition, Speaky has mobile version(application), which, however, does not shine with particularly rich functionality.
When this site first appeared, in 2015, it was possible to communicate on it in text and voice chat, now the voice chat has been removed - apparently due to the fact that many people still preferred to exchange contacts and talk on the more convenient Skype.
A curious feature of text chat is the ability to correct messages. Ask the interlocutor to correct mistakes, and he will be able to edit your remarks in the chat: the correct option will be highlighted in green, and the wrong one in red.
4. Interpals
Interpals has very detailed people search and blacklist settings On Interpals they often complain because of the abundance of all kinds of spammers, fakes and “harassers”. Here, unlike HelloTalk, they do not try to get rid of flirting fans, you can even search for users with the “Flirting” filter - hence the abundance of the corresponding audience. But still, this old language site, which has been operating since 1998, is home to quite a lot of quite conscientious language lovers.
If you are plagued by annoying users, there are incredibly advanced blacklist settings at your service, where you can block people of a certain gender, age, and location.
5. Tandem
The review is called “6 sites for communicating with foreigners”, but Tandem- this is not a website, but an application for practicing languages, that is, there is no version for PC. Unlike HelloLingo, which tries to look NOT like a social network as much as possible, the Tandem app, on the contrary, looks like a dating site with photos, profiles, interests, etc. However, in this community, communication is not welcome for the purpose of language practice.
Tandem is positioned as an application for finding 1) tutors, 2) partners for communication in foreign languages. It is really convenient to find interlocutors, due to the fact that users post a lot of information about themselves (interests, level, goals, etc.) and even leave feedback about each other. As for tutors, I see no reason to look for them on Tandem - the choice is still small, the prices, on the contrary, are rather high, and studying languages via video link on a phone is less convenient than on a PC.
6. HelloTalk
HelloTalk- this is also an application, not a website, it has a web version, but with very limited features. If you only want to communicate with foreigners using , then HelloTalk is a great option.
But how the HelloTalk application is much better than the same Speaky: it has everything you might need: correcting the text (like in Speaky), sending a photo, voice messages, convenient search users.
You can learn more about HelloTalk from or from this video.
Is it possible to practice without an interlocutor?
It is impossible to practice communication without an interlocutor, because what kind of communication can there be without the participation of a second person? However, it is still possible to develop speaking skills alone (although it is NOT the same as practicing with a live person), I talked more about it in this video:
Conclusion
If you are serious about conversational practice, I recommend studying with tutors and taking “conversational” lessons from them. In my experience, this is the most effective way. Yes, you will spend money (very little compared to the courses), but you won’t spend much time looking for interlocutors in free language social networks, in which there are scammers, spammers, fakes, or anxious people.
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In most English-speaking countries, talking about "nothing" is normal and even necessary in certain situations. Light, unobtrusive conversation on random topics "breaks the ice" in communication or fills an awkward silence between people.
Even though you may feel insecure and embarrassed about your knowledge of English, you cannot remain unapproachably silent. Just like it is certain time When "small talk" is appropriate, there are also certain topics that people often discuss at these moments. The hardest part of this kind of non-committal communication is knowing how to start a conversation. Review the list of conversation phrases again and practice them with a friend. Remember, in an English-speaking environment, it's often better to make a few mistakes than to say nothing at all!
- WHO fills the time with talk?
People use "small talk" in many different ways. The most common type is those who don't know each other at all. While we often teach children not to talk to strangers, adults will, as a matter of courtesy, say at least a few words in certain situations. This is also true for people who have just met, like friends of your friends. Another type of person who has to constantly maintain a polite conversation on abstract topics is office workers, who may not be good friends, but work in the same department. Sales managers, waitresses, hairdressers and receptionists often try to "talk" customers.
- WHAT are people talking about?
There are certain "safe" topics that people tend to chat about. Weather, obviously, is the number one topic that people who don't know each other calmly discuss. Sometimes even friends and family discuss the weather when they meet or start a conversation. Another topic that is particularly safe is current events. As long as you're not trying to discuss a controversial political issue, it's usually safe to talk about the news. Sports news is a very common topic, especially if a local team or player is in a competition or playoff and wins or suffers an embarrassing defeat. News about the world of show business, celebrity gossip can also be a great topic in a certain setting. If you and your interlocutor have something in common, or you find yourself in the same situation, you can talk about it. For example, if the bus is extremely full and there is no free places, you could talk about the reasons why this is happening. Likewise, people in the office might casually discuss new design corporate stickers. There are also some things that are not considered acceptable in a conversation. Discussing personal information, such as salary or a recent divorce, is unacceptable between people who don't know each other well. Compliments regarding clothing or hair are acceptable; however, you should never say anything (good or bad) about the human body. Negative comments about another person not involved in the conversation are also unacceptable: when you don't know the person well, you can't be sure who their friends really are. You don't talk about personal issues either because you don't know if you can trust another person with your secrets or personal information. In addition, it is not safe to touch on topics that society considers controversial, such as religion or politics. Finally, it is unwise to keep talking about an issue that the other person is unhappy with or uninterested in.
- WHERE do people talk?
People communicate almost everywhere, but there are certain places where it is very common. Most often, "small talk" occurs in places where people are waiting for something. For example, you can chat with another person who is waiting for a bus that is due to arrive any minute, or with a person waiting to board a plane. People also converse in the dentist's waiting room or in line at the grocery store. In offices, people communicate in elevators, canteens, and even in toilets, especially if there is a queue. Some events (parties, presentations) also assume that all guests who do not know each other very well will join in small talk. For example, you could talk to someone you don't know over punch or by the pool. In English, this is called "mingling" - "mixing", "involvement", when people are in a public environment and communicate with many people.
- WHEN do people talk?
The most common time for a "small talk" is when you see or meet someone for the first time that day. For example, if you see a colleague at the gym, you can say hello and discuss sports or the weather. However, the next time you see each other, just smile and say nothing. If there is a pause in the conversation, or communication has come to naught, this is definitely the right time to start a casual conversation. If someone is reading a book or typing a message at the bus stop, it's not very appropriate to start a conversation. Another good time to chat is during a break during a meeting or a pause in a performance when nothing important is happening. Finally, it is important to recognize the signal when the other person wants the conversation to pause.
- WHY do people talk?
There are several different reasons why people talk. The first and most obvious is the need to break the awkward silence. Another reason, however, is to pass the time. That is why "small talk" is so common when you are waiting for something. Some people communicate in order to be polite. You may not feel like chatting with every guest at a party, but just sitting in a corner by yourself is impolite. After someone introduces you to other people but you don't know anything about them, you should start with a little conversation to show polite interest in them and get to know them better.
- Phrases to start a conversation
| Talk about the weather |
Beautiful day, isn't it? Can you believe all of this rain we "ve been having? It looks like it's going to snow. It sure would be nice to be in Hawaii right about now. I hear they "re calling for thunderstorms all weekend. We couldn't ask for a nicer day, could we? How about this weather? Did you order this sunshine? |
| Talk about current events |
Did you catch the news today? Did you hear about that fire on Fourth St? What do you think about this transit strike? I read in the paper today that the Sears Mall is closing. I heard on the radio today that they are finally going to start building the new bridge. How about those Reds? Do you think they're going to win tonight? |
| In the office |
Looking forward to the weekend? Have you worked here long? I can't believe how busy/quiet we are today, can you? Has it been a long week? You look like you could use a cup of coffee. What do you think of the new computers? |
| At the party |
So how do you know Justin? Have you tried the cabbage rolls that Sandy made? Are you enjoying yourself? It looks like you could use another drink. Pretty nice place, huh? I love your dress. Can I ask where you got it? |
| On a walk |
How old's your baby? What's your puppy's name? The tulips are sure beautiful at this time of year, aren't they? How do you like the new park? Nice day to be outside, isn't it? |
| waiting somewhere |
I didn't think it would be so busy today. You look like you "ve got your hands full (with children or goods). The bus must be running late today. It looks like we are going to be here a while, huh? I "ll have to remember not to come here on Mondays. How long have you been waiting? |
Today, more and more Russian women are getting acquainted with foreigners in the hope of arranging their fate and escaping from Russia. In many ways, girls are helped in this by dating sites, where you can meet and chat with foreign men. The site system is quite simple, you just need to register on the site, after which you can either write to the men you like yourself or reply to their letters.
Many girls believe that one registration is enough for all relationships to develop. In this case, the correspondence is not given much importance, it is believed that it will turn out by itself. In fact, no matter how surprising it sounds, you also need to be able to correspond. Otherwise, all your communication may end after the first 4-5 letters, or even after the first letter. Correspondence is more complex than real communication. Communicating live, you see facial expressions, gestures, a person's reaction to your words. Something can be explained, noticed if you accidentally offended. When you write letters, you lose all this. And waiting for an answer for days, you think whether he was offended or just busy.
Of course, it is impossible to foresee absolutely all cases, but at least the most common mistakes that girls make when texting can be avoided. How to do this and how to conduct correspondence so that it has every chance of developing into a real meeting, I will tell in this article.
Where does the correspondence begin?
After you have selected a few profiles that interest you, you need to start a conversation with something. As a rule, you have two options: write them a message, or send, wink, or in some other way let the person know that he is interesting to you. If you compare these two methods, then it is best, of course, to write a message in which you make it clear to the man that he is interested in you, ask him some questions, and make a small presentation of yourself. I assure you that of two equally pretty women, a man is more likely to respond to the one who wrote him a message, and not just wink.
As for the first message, you should not be limited to the words "Hi, you have beautiful photos" or "Would you like to get to know me." Such messages come in batches and are rather banal, and therefore become boring. You need to stand out and be interested, then your chances will be much higher. question and exclamation marks. When you read such a letter, you get the feeling that a person is either too young or simply not serious. And not every man wants to start a correspondence, and even more so a relationship with such a person.
Separately, I would like to mention messages with hints of an intimate nature. Many women think that since all men want sex, a hint of it in the first message can spur the development of relationships. I hasten to dissuade you of this. A hint, of course, will spur you on, but it’s unlikely that the relationship will be the one you were counting on. It is unlikely that many men who want to find a life partner and spouse will choose the one who started talking about sex without knowing the person, so to speak, with the first person they meet. The attitude in this case will be appropriate.
How to talk so that the correspondence is not interrupted
Finally, you were able to choose an interlocutor to your liking and wrote to him. And the first message from him has already arrived. How to continue the conversation so that none of you loses the desire to communicate? I will say the main advice, maybe banal, but, nevertheless, effective. It is necessary to maintain and warm up interest in yourself. Of course, it is much easier to advise than to implement. But still, it's real. For starters, do not lay out everything about yourself at once. Remember that a woman should be a mystery. And if you tell everything about yourself in 2-3 letters, starting from infancy, and to this day, then there will be no trace of the notorious mystery. But do not take this advice too seriously and remain silent in response to all the questions of your interlocutor. Take as a rule a rough outline of the letter. First, a greeting, then briefly about what has happened to you in recent days, then answer his questions and ask your own, and at the end talk a little about your past. Do not get carried away with stories about your former love and unhappy life. Correspondence should generally contain as little negative information as possible. You must radiate joy and optimism.
Any man loves to talk about himself, so if you ask him questions and take an interest in his life and affairs, then the chances of winning his heart are very high. But, as I said, everything should be in moderation. You should not arrange a one-sided interrogation, but remember everything that he tells you you need. In particular, in order to later ask how this or that event ended and how he spent his vacation or business trip. Such a clear interest is flattering and the man understands that you are carefully reading everything that he writes to you.
Do not greatly exaggerate your strengths and capabilities. If you hate cooking or knitting, then you don’t need to talk about your culinary talents and the fact that you knitted sweaters to all your friends. Be yourself. After all, you would not be happy about the fact of deception. For example, if a man told how he is a homebody or vice versa, how well he plays golf, and upon meeting you would find out that he does not know which side to approach the drill from, and he only saw golf on TV. You must slowly form in his mind your image, which he puts together from your stories about himself, reactions to certain words. Oddly enough, men love living women, with their strengths and weaknesses, and not some kind of ideal. Everything is explained by the fact that the ideal must be met, and with a simple woman it is easier to build relationships and a family.
If you have a correspondence with someone, then try to answer more often. This does not mean at all that now you have to spend all the time at the computer, waiting for messages. No. It is enough to check at least once an hour or two hours whether a message has arrived. It's just that if the break between your letters is more than a day, especially at the very beginning of the correspondence, then the chances that someone else will not beat him off are very low. There is a lot of competition on dating sites, and if you have already found an interesting person, then your task is to make sure that he pays maximum attention to you. Try not to push or whine by saying that he rarely writes to you. It is better to throw all your strength into making the correspondence more active.
In general, when communicating with a man, rely on your intuition. If something tells you that you don’t need to rush things and discuss some topic yet, then just tell him that you are not ready to talk about it. I assure you, the man will understand and appreciate it.
Remember that all messages must be sincere, come from the heart and soul, then it will really be interesting to communicate with you.
Many women ask themselves the question: how to understand the intentions of a foreign man so as not to waste their time on a frivolous candidate? There is a myth among ladies that foreigners do not want to get married, and correspondence with Slavic women, for some unknown reason, is an interesting and exciting pastime for them ... Today we would like to try to answer the question raised, to explain why, having serious intentions, men are in no hurry to take action.
We think many will agree with the statement that sometimes a person's intentions are obvious and easy to understand. However, it also happens that the truth is revealed only after a while. It is impossible to fully understand the idea, the thoughts of another person. After all, each person is individual. This also applies to meeting foreigners. Without giving a man attention and time to communicate with him, it is impossible to easily understand his intentions from his first message (unless, of course, he openly wrote about them).
From the first letters of a foreign gentleman you can learn:
Is the man looking for a serious relationship?
Are you interested in him?
whether he is responsible for communicating with you.
He just wants to flirt;
not interested in a long-term, serious relationship.
Despite this, you will not be able to understand whether a serious relationship will develop between you, whether he is ready to marry you. Alas, this is impossible and depends not only on him, but on both of you, on whether such relations will develop between you that will lead to a marriage union! Not every acquaintance should and can develop into a long-term relationship, only based on the presence of serious intentions on both sides. But what about feelings, commonality of views and interests? It takes time to find out if he is right for you, if you are right for him. Time to get to know each other. Relations with a foreigner, the decision to move to another country cannot be predicted from the first lines with which the letter begins ...
Later we will return to the opposition of the goal and the path to its implementation, we will try to explain the view of European men on relationships. Now we would like to dwell on certain "signs" that show that a man is responsible for communicating with you or he is not looking for a serious relationship.
Pay attention to...
The punctuality of his answers. In other words, how long does it take a man to answer your letters. Do you wait for his letters for days or does he respond quickly enough. This shows his interest in communicating with you. Pay attention to which days he cannot write letters or communicate via Skype. Single people are usually free on weekends. However, it should be taken into account and understood with understanding that a working man will not be able to correspond for hours on end on weekdays, and a man living alone should devote time to household chores: cooking, cleaning, communicating with children (if he has any) .
The volume of his letters. Whether you receive short messages or he takes the time to write letters, tries to write you interesting and voluminous messages.
Willingness to talk about yourself, to dedicate you to your life: how detailed he answers your questions, whether he ignores them and whether he talks about himself.
If a man ignores questions, tells little about himself, but only asks to send him more photos and focuses solely on your external attractiveness, sexuality, you should be very careful about further communication with him. Topics of an intimate nature, these are not topics for first letters, these are not topics for conversations with a stranger.
How polite and tactful is the form of his address to you.
How openly he considers different forms of communication: not only the exchange of letters, but also video calls via Skype, communication using instant messengers (WhatsApp, Viber).
Desire to meet, come to you. As a rule, if a foreigner is not interested in a relationship with a woman, he will not waste his time on correspondence and will not want to make a trip to Eastern Europe. However, we ask you to understand that in order to make a decision to travel, a foreign gentleman will need some time to get to know the woman better. To make a trip to a stranger, you need confidence in his decency and trust in him. This is born through regular and sincere communication: letters, Skype, instant messengers. In addition, a man should feel attraction, he should begin to develop tender feelings for a woman.
Foreigners are in no hurry
Let's return to the already voiced problem, why do men say they are looking for a serious relationship, but are in no hurry to come or take the initiative? It is necessary to distinguish between the presence of a goal - to find a woman to create a family and the path to its implementation - getting to know a woman, communicating, trying to get to know her better and understand what he feels for her, do they have something in common, is a new acquaintance suitable for the role future wife. Much happens by trial and error. It is possible to find out whether the future is possible for you and the new gentleman only by getting to know each other better: through correspondence, through daily communication, calls and, most importantly, through real meetings. All this is a time of "testing" whether he or she is suitable for the goal.
In other words, a man asks the following questions: what feelings do I have for this woman? Can I trust her? Do I want to marry her and start a family together? If the answer to these questions, unfortunately, is negative, this does not mean that a man is not looking for a serious relationship. He just has not yet met the woman with whom he would like to build this relationship.
Agree that not every foreigner is suitable for the role of your life partner. The same is true for men. To make a decision about a serious step, you need time, you need feelings, you need confidence in the other person. Without giving a man time, it is impossible to say whether the relationship will develop between you.
Beware of frivolous men. Hasty, ardent and ill-considered promises are easy to break when understanding comes to the place of a fleeting impulse.
European mentality
In Europe, a slightly different view of the relationship between a man and a woman is common than in the countries of the former USSR. Relationships in Western countries are often viewed as partnerships. This means that they should be interested in building relationships, both men and women should “work” on this. A simple example, if a European takes a “step” towards a relationship with a woman, he expects her to take a step back towards him, and not continue to stand still, waiting for him to act. European men are rational. If they do not feel reciprocity, do not see the woman's interest in relationships and readiness for relationships, they will not win and achieve. After all, in their view it is meaningless! She is not interested in relations with me, I am not interested in her as a person, as a man. We'd better keep looking.
Look at the situation through the eyes of a man
You need to understand and accept the fact that men, like women, choose. They want to meet the one for which they will be ready to act. Foreigners looking for a spouse from Eastern Europe want to fall in love! It is falling in love - this is the incentive that will make a man come and fight for a relationship with a chosen one.
Everyone has the right to choose, take their time and do as they see fit. Corresponding with a woman from Eastern Europe is dubious entertainment. After all, reading often rude and monosyllabic letters cannot be called an exciting activity. Believe me, men are just as tired of failures, disappointments, letters of the same type, acquaintances ending in nothing, and feelings of loneliness. In addition, searching for a woman from another country requires them to spend financially not only on travel and paperwork, but also on the very opportunity to meet, because most serious international dating sites are paid for men.
No one can guarantee a man that the woman he likes so much, with whom he spends so much time communicating, has really serious intentions towards him and will not act frivolously and irresponsibly when he comes to her ... Find your soul mate, a difficult task for both men and women!
Has he talked about the meeting yet?
You have been talking for a long time, but he has not started a conversation yet? Remember what we wrote about above, about the peculiarities of Europeans, and take a “step” towards your relationship. Invite him to come to you! How is a man supposed to know how you feel about him, that you are interested in a real meeting with him? Europeans do not know how to read the minds of Slavic women. (Cm. )
It should, however, be emphasized that we do not advise inviting a man to visit only after a few letters, this sounds rather frivolous. In order to make a trip to a woman whom a foreigner met on the Internet, he needs to be imbued with confidence in her, be sure of the seriousness and sincerity of her intentions. And the woman herself needs to understand whether she really wants to meet this man. We repeat, without paying attention, it is impossible for a man to understand his intentions and show himself so that he understands that he is communicating with an honest, responsible woman. A man needs to feel attracted. It can happen instantly, as at first sight, or it can take some time.
In conclusion, we would like to advise you not to look for secret signs and hidden meanings in order to expose a man, not to allow negative experience, no matter your own or someone else's, to influence your behavior, decision-making and the manner of acquaintance, but simply show yourself to a new acquaintance with the best hand and give him a chance to prove himself! In the end, you are looking for your only man, and on the way to him you may expect disappointment and acquaintances that lead to nothing. Take it easy, it's just trial and error. It helps you to learn more about yourself, about men, to understand what kind of man you want to meet and what relationships to see in your life. When you meet the man destined for you, everything will work out in the best way, you will be ready for a relationship, you do not need to suspect, expose and rack your brains.
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